Family Law

Cohabitation and TOLATA Barristers

Advice and representation for unmarried couples who disagree about who owns the home they shared, and whether it should be sold.

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There is no such thing as a common law marriage in England and Wales. When cohabiting couples separate, the court has no power to divide their property according to fairness or need, as it can on divorce. Instead, the question is who owns what under the ordinary law of property and trusts. Claims about a shared home are usually brought under section 14 of the Trusts of Land and Appointment of Trustees Act 1996, known as TOLATA, which lets the court declare the size of each person's beneficial share and decide whether the property should be sold.

The starting point depends on how the home is held. If it is in joint names with no express declaration of trust, the House of Lords in Stack v Dowden and the Supreme Court in Jones v Kernott held that equal beneficial ownership is presumed, and the person arguing for a different split must show the couple's common intention was otherwise, judged across the whole course of dealing. If the home is in one person's sole name, the other must prove a common intention that they would share ownership, and that they relied on it to their detriment. Paying towards household bills is often not enough on its own. A signed declaration of trust, such as the one on the Land Registry transfer form, will usually be decisive.

TOLATA claims are civil proceedings under the Civil Procedure Rules, not family proceedings. That matters in practice. The loser is normally ordered to pay the winner's legal costs, so pre-action letters, early disclosure and well-judged Part 36 offers can shape the outcome as much as the evidence. Where proprietary estoppel is argued, for example because a partner was promised a share and gave up something in reliance, the court has some flexibility in the remedy it grants.

If there are children, the parent with care may also have a claim under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 for housing and capital to meet the children's needs during their dependency. A Direct Access Barrister can advise on both routes, draft your letter of claim, statements of case and witness evidence, and represent you at hearings, while you issue and serve documents and handle correspondence.

Your Barrister can advise on:

  • How the property is held on the title register
  • Whether a declaration of trust or TR1 settles the shares
  • The strength of a common intention constructive trust claim
  • Proprietary estoppel based on promises and reliance
  • Equitable accounting for mortgage payments and occupation rent
  • Whether a restriction should be registered at the Land Registry

Because costs usually follow the event, advice on:

  • Complying with pre-action conduct requirements
  • Making and responding to Part 36 offers
  • Without prejudice save as to costs proposals
  • Mediation and other alternative dispute resolution
  • Budgeting for a multi-track claim
  • When to settle rather than proceed to trial

Your Barrister can draft:

  • A detailed letter of claim or response
  • Particulars of claim or a Part 8 claim with evidence
  • A defence and counterclaim
  • Witness statements on conversations and contributions
  • Schedules of payments towards purchase and mortgage
  • Skeleton arguments for interim and trial hearings

Your Barrister drafts these documents. You issue the claim, file documents and serve them on the other party.

As a Direct Access client you:

  • Obtain office copies of the title and any declaration of trust
  • Gather bank records showing the deposit and mortgage payments
  • Collect messages or emails about who would own what
  • Issue and serve the claim and pay the court fee
  • Comply with disclosure and exchange deadlines
  • Correspond with the other side and the court
  1. Your Barrister reviews the register, the purchase documents, payment history and any messages about ownership, and gives a realistic view of the likely share and the costs risk.

  2. Before proceedings, you send a detailed letter of claim drafted by your Barrister, setting out the facts, the legal basis and what you want, and allowing a reasonable time to respond.

  3. Your Barrister advises on mediation and on settlement offers that put cost pressure on the other side, and on whether one party buying the other out is realistic.

  4. If the dispute does not settle, you issue a TOLATA claim in the County Court, or the High Court in larger cases, and serve it. The other party files a defence and sometimes a counterclaim.

  5. The court allocates the claim to a track, sets a timetable and orders disclosure and witness statements. Your Barrister represents you at case management hearings and any application for an interim order for sale.

  6. At trial your Barrister presents your evidence, cross-examines the other party on what was said and done, and addresses the judge on the beneficial shares, any sale and the costs order.

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We lived together for years. Do I have the same rights as a spouse?

No. However long you lived together, and even if you had children, the court cannot share out property on the basis of fairness or need as it can after a divorce. Your rights depend on legal and beneficial ownership, trusts and estoppel. Reform of cohabitation law has been proposed, so take advice on the law as it stands when you separate.

The house is in joint names. Will it be split equally?

Equal shares are the starting presumption where there is no declaration of trust. It can be displaced only by evidence that you both intended something different, looking at the whole relationship. If you signed a declaration of trust specifying shares, that will usually bind you.

The house is in my partner's sole name. Can I claim a share?

Possibly. You must show a shared intention that you would have a beneficial interest, either through express discussions or inferred from conduct such as contributing to the purchase price, and that you acted to your detriment in reliance on it. Paying general household bills or making improvements alone may not be enough.

Can the court force a sale?

Yes. Under section 14 of TOLATA the court can order sale, or refuse it. Section 15 directs it to consider the intentions of the people who created the trust, the purpose for which the property is held, the welfare of any child who lives there and the interests of any secured creditor.

Who pays the legal costs?

Unlike most family cases, TOLATA claims normally follow the rule that the losing party pays the winner's costs, subject to the court's discretion and any offers made. This makes careful early advice and well-timed offers particularly important.

We have children. Does that help?

Children do not change the TOLATA analysis, but the parent they live with may claim under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989 for a home, lump sums or periodical payments for the child's benefit. A Schedule 1 home is usually held for the child's dependency and then returns to the paying parent.

Can I use a Direct Access Barrister for a TOLATA claim?

Yes, provided you can manage the procedural side of civil litigation, including issuing, serving, disclosure and keeping to deadlines. Barristers do not conduct litigation on your behalf. If the claim is document-heavy, your Barrister may suggest bringing in a Solicitor for parts of it.

What does TOLATA advice cost?

Fixed fees, agreed up front. Advice starts from £250 and court representation from £850, with a clear quote before any work begins.

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